For countless people, the thought of accepting accountability seems daunting. The state of mind one needs for accountability can introduce challenges. For each perception, the definition varies but the basis of the term consists of obligation or willingness to accept responsibility or to account for one’s actions. However, admitting to playing a part in a problematic situation requires certain levels of maturity that not everyone comprehends. Accountability does not always mean physically saying or doing something, instead, a lesson one learns and crafts with each situation one finds themself in.

“My definition of accountability is to be in touch with what you’ve done and how it affects others around you. It builds character within you. Thinking of myself as my own boss, I know I can only fail myself and that gives me a mentality that is aware of my surroundings and self. some would say it’s in line with maturity and masculinity,” senior Donell Estridge said. 

Accepting accountability means acknowledging the actions needed to make a change. Whether that means not picking up the nearest chocolate bar when feeling anxious or staying around friends that do not keep your best interest in mind. Overcoming poor habits and looking for opportunities to sacrifice, to accomplish making change accompanies the process of accountability. Stay consistent with deciding to make change day by day as times and also people change for better or worse through the process. When a change happens, whether involving school, home, friends or family, it can ignite feelings of uncertainty or loss of control. By holding one’s self-responsible by setting realistic goals and tasks, one can achieve anything they want while keeping themselves accountable. 

“Not doing my homework and having to face the consequences of making it up forces me to be accountable. It’s important because it’s taking ownership of positive or negative actions that you have done,” junior Emile Smith said.  

By accepting accountability, the door of opportunity opens to growing healthier relationships, inner peace, communication, motivation and self-actualization. Confronting and learning from past mistakes by taking ownership allows for growth in all aspects of life. 

“When you blame others you give up your power to grow,” author Robert Anthony said.